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The Problem Perfectionism Poses for Vocational Discernment

The pressure to achieve perfection, exacerbated by societal expectations and social media, can lead to anxiety and limit opportunities for undergraduate students. This fear of failure can also interfere with meaningful vocational exploration, since failure can play a meaningful role in discerning a sense of calling and purpose in life. Acknowledging failure and imperfection fosters resilience and learning and can help young people navigate their lives more meaningfully.

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“Perfection is the enemy.”

This simple phrase became a mantra of sorts for our cohort in graduate school. The group included students who wanted to stand out in the best way, especially during the first year. We’d compare notes and check each other’s progress in a quest for the perfect submission. After several semesters, we recognized (at last) that the perfect submission was elusive. Never-ending revisions gave way to doing our best possible (but not necessarily perfect) work, making necessary refinements, and meeting deadlines.

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